I always feel sad that Dave has not been a part of so much of our family’s history. There have been so many times in the past 13 years that our family has experienced joyful celebrations and the sadness of losing those close to us. I feel Dave is watching over us, but I just wish he could be alongside us to share in our laughter and tears.
I remember how Dave would encourage me to slow down, quit the rat race, and start enjoying life. He just wanted me to find peace and contentment. This post is about his wish and how, in a small way, he was a part of it.
Fred and I were married this past January. We dated back in high school over 57 years ago. We went on to marry others, have children, and experience a lifetime of joy and sadness before reconnecting three years ago. Young love is written about in songs and books, but senior love is just as special. It is a comfortable companionship when you can enjoy the peaceful day-to-day happenings together, or share the excitement of world travel. It’s knowing that someone is there for you all the time; someone on your side. This would make Dave smile and say, “It’s about time!”
It was raining on the morning of our small ceremony. However, as we arrived back at the B&B later that afternoon, we were greeted by a beautiful sunset. The next morning we were thrilled to see the dramatic sunrise over the Delaware with the sun’s rays streaming down the Catskill mountains. It felt like a message of congratulations from Dave.
Dave is in so many spectacular and unique places all over the world, but this time I just wanted him to be with us on our amazing day. And, by the way, it is a beautiful place, too.
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